Hello welcome to the world everyone is cute,smart and sexy or everyone is trying to be,despite the fact the reality can and may be different in most of the times.Does all these fake/unreal compliments make you ready to handle reality or say the truth? I might sound like a jerk who prefers to tell people that they aren’t good looking,they aren’t beautiful but no I am not that guy,but I just believe in truth rather than comforting people with stupid lies.Why would you lie to people?Why would you tell someone that they are the most beautiful person in the world when they and you know that it is a pure lie.Later they start forming this attitude based on a false idea that they are the most beautiful person in the world and then along the turn will come someone to show them a mirror and that’ll break them.Beauty is something what’s inside and looks have absolutely nothing to do with it. See,the idea is that one should not get motivated and move ahead on something that is not true.I mean why don’t we find comfort in truth?Why do we have to be perfect?Why be the most beautiful according to some set standard?Aren’t blind people familiar with beauty?Don’t tell me they aren’t.Do we owe anything to anyone? A female has to be in perfect shape i.e in perfect body ratio and males need to have perfectly shaped abs.It is not a bad thing obviously to be in good shape but it’s not necessary and being healthy is what’s important and doing things for yourself so your confidence would improve shall be one of the main motto.People do it for other people who hardly care because they are in the race too of being better and looking better so people can like them on just the grounds of looks. Leo Tolstoy said “It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness.”He said enough in just several words,we will consider a good looking person as someone who’s good and better than one who’s not so good looking.I do not mean you go around telling people that they aren’t good,smart or whatever but I’m addressing to all those people who want to know that they are beautiful and in perfect shape,you are good and nearly perfect with those looks you have,you do not need somebody to tell you that you aren’t beautiful,you do not want to hear lies and you do not want lies because looks doesn’t define you and your personality. This is what I think,I see on my facebook people fishing for likes and comments from people who lie or just be nice so they wouldn’t hurt feelings of their friends.We do not need approval and we do not have to follow the set stupid standards,this is what makes people insecure,suicidal at times,indulging in activities which aren’t good for them and in a manner forces people to adjust where it’s not even necessary.Be comfortable because beauty is something in the inside and I can’t define it for now.I’d like to hear from the readers as well. I wrote this earlier but this is going to my response for writing prompt here http://dailypost.wordpress.com/dp_prompt/absolute-beauty/ Jafar Rehman
Hello there,I was supposed to post here but couldn't because I was busy with dealing my sinusitis infection,yes it is one bad infection and you can’t do anything about it but rest,take medicines and wait for it to go away,wasted my week.No worries it feels better to be well again.I was working on the topic… Continue reading Two roads
The more I read the more I realize that I have absolutely no talent for writing but here I am trying my hand at it.Let's see where I end up.I cannot write good and that means that I can't take people where I want to take them through language,literature. I've been reading lately and realized that I need to read even more and I need to write even more frequently which I don't really do.Here is what I am going to do,i’ll list some books I recently read and they are in the latest order-The Unhandsome Prince by John Moore- I completed this book yesterday and I liked it because it was written in a very casual and friendly way,now this is just my view on it but yes the book was a great break from the normal world,and I say this because it has some business with magic stuff and people changing into frogs,I believe you should read this book if you get a chance.It has a light humor to it too.The Reader by Bernhard Schlink- I read this a week ago and also did a small review on it which was also my first book review ever,I hope you found it good.This book was completely different from "The unhandsome prince",this was about a young boy getting into a strange relationship with a lady much older than him and it was a page turner I remember saying this in my review.This book explored more serious topics like that of world war and holocaust.It was a great read and one should give it a try before the decision of watching the movie based on this novel is made.3.A walk in the woods by Bill Bryson- If you are a nature lover,animal lover or even an adventurer than you can absolutely consider reading this great book.Two guys come together and decide to go on trekking and the book covers everything right from the preparation for the trekking till the completion.I should add that it might inspire some readers to even go on a hike/adventure,I myself had this great urge to just pack my bag and go out and explore the wilderness or say the world.This book is a great journey and is sure to make you think about going on an adventure.Suggested for people who like and love nature,animals and adventure.So these were the latest 3 books I read and they were great and all from different genre and they all somehow made me realized that I need to work hard really hard if I want to write great and connect with people.After much reading and writing I someday maybe able to write a great article,a great book,poem?The book I am now going to read is Faceless Killers by Henning Mankell,if you’ve read this book then do tell me your views about it.Plus if you(the reader) has read any of the three books I mentioned earlier then feel free to share your thoughts with me and suggest me something good to read.And comment is compulsory for those who want to be writers one day,I just want to know on what level they are.
The Readerby Bernhard SchlinkI completed this book around 15 minutes back and I really liked it.I'll try and write a small review and spare me for any mistakes I might make because it's my first time reviewing a book.A friend of mine recommended the movie and I planned to see it but simply couldn't and… Continue reading Book Review – The Reader by Bernhard Schlink
[Updated on 22/May/2017]Okay, Okay, I am not just going to talk about a bird but something more important. I mentioned earlier that I like to find out something positive and interesting out of common things (a dying habit now).So yes this is one of my post where I tell you about an encounter I had… Continue reading Desire to fly